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The goal isn’t injury, it's sensation. Whether it’s a light smack on the ass or a thuddy hit to the thighs, impact play allows Dominants to exert control and submissives to experience everything from pain to pleasure to catharsis.

Power exchange is exactly what it sounds like: a consensual power transfer between people. One person gives up a certain level of control, and the other assumes it. But that transfer isn’t something casual or impulsive—it’s intentional, mutual, and emotionally rich.

packed my diaper, onesie, sippy cup, and coloring supplies. Once I got there, I quickly changed into my diaper and clothes and put my hair in pigtails. I then waddled my way back to the main room.

As a submissive, you willingly give up control to your dominant partner, trusting them to guide and care for you. I did say willingly, this is not something that is forced. This exchange can be incredibly empowering and intimate, but it requires clear communication, consent, and mutual respect 

Many people experimenting with BDSM want to know how to be dominant. While some traits may come naturally, there is always a lot to be learned. The differences of domination, controlling, or abusing someone are distinct enough that some guidelines are necessary.  BDSM is more than just tying someone up or issuing commands. True dominance is about confidence, communication, and responsibility. Whether you're new to dominance or looking to refine your skills, this guide will h

The most interesting thing I have learned, and I want to share it with everyone, is that my kinks are changing and evolving. I think that a lot of times, playing really has to do with just finding the right partner to explore that kink with. I have had different people approach me, and some people you just know will be fun as soon as it starts. 

A switch is someone who enjoys taking on both dominant (or “Top”) and submissive (or “bottom”) roles in BDSM dynamics. This can occur in different scenes, relationships, or even within the same session.

I actually really wanted to meet and have just a dedicated sub that I could meet up with in person sometimes

Discipline is a word that has many different meanings and memories tied to it. In BDSM it's about structure, control, and consequences

Masochism is one of the easiest things to misunderstand and one of the hardest to explain to your doctor when they ask about those bruises.

I have decided to search for a new devoted sub. Now that I have things organized and a little more perfected I think that I am ready.

Sadism is finding great pleasure in another person's suffering intentionally in pursuit of one's own pleasure.

things are going to change here, as I am changing. My relationships are changing, and what I can do and what I want to do

I am constantly in a state of submission and I always know my place with my Domme. There are no timeframes or business hours

Bondage is sexually arousing for some, as the exchange of power is exciting, and the helplessness of being bound

I smiled and went back to work, knowing my Domme had genuinely gotten into my head. A true mindfuck.

why I was being punished fell on deaf ears, the alarm bells were ringing. A dead inside numb feeling took over and I almost cried

Learn about what submission means in BDSM and how to safely participate in your new kinks and desires as you explore with a partner.

I went from a Chihuahua pissing itself at the first sign of trouble to a Pitbull, collared and ready to heel on command

I was always into BDSM from a young age, odd for someone who wasn't exposed to porn. So when I saw him, my instincts kicked in.