Education and Information

Power exchange is exactly what it sounds like: a consensual power transfer between people. One person gives up a certain level of control, and the other assumes it. But that transfer isn’t something casual or impulsive—it’s intentional, mutual, and emotionally rich.

As a submissive, you willingly give up control to your dominant partner, trusting them to guide and care for you. I did say willingly, this is not something that is forced. This exchange can be incredibly empowering and intimate, but it requires clear communication, consent, and mutual respect 

Many people experimenting with BDSM want to know how to be dominant. While some traits may come naturally, there is always a lot to be learned. The differences of domination, controlling, or abusing someone are distinct enough that some guidelines are necessary.  BDSM is more than just tying someone up or issuing commands. True dominance is about confidence, communication, and responsibility. Whether you're new to dominance or looking to refine your skills, this guide will h

A switch is someone who enjoys taking on both dominant (or “Top”) and submissive (or “bottom”) roles in BDSM dynamics. This can occur in different scenes, relationships, or even within the same session.

Discipline is a word that has many different meanings and memories tied to it. In BDSM it's about structure, control, and consequences

Masochism is one of the easiest things to misunderstand and one of the hardest to explain to your doctor when they ask about those bruises.

Sadism is finding great pleasure in another person's suffering intentionally in pursuit of one's own pleasure.

Bondage is sexually arousing for some, as the exchange of power is exciting, and the helplessness of being bound

Learn about what submission means in BDSM and how to safely participate in your new kinks and desires as you explore with a partner.

Dominance in BDSM is about trust, control, and consent. It’s the foundation of a healthy power dynamic, of mutual respect & communication

Learn the most basic ideas of BDSM and some of the common terms. Learn about respect and trust.