Power exchange is exactly what it sounds like: a consensual power transfer between people. One person gives up a certain level of control, and the other assumes it. But that transfer isn’t something casual or impulsive—it’s intentional, mutual, and emotionally rich.

As a submissive, you willingly give up control to your dominant partner, trusting them to guide and care for you. I did say willingly, this is not something that is forced. This exchange can be incredibly empowering and intimate, but it requires clear communication, consent, and mutual respect 

I actually really wanted to meet and have just a dedicated sub that I could meet up with in person sometimes

I have decided to search for a new devoted sub. Now that I have things organized and a little more perfected I think that I am ready.

Sadism is finding great pleasure in another person's suffering intentionally in pursuit of one's own pleasure.

I am constantly in a state of submission and I always know my place with my Domme. There are no timeframes or business hours

Bondage is sexually arousing for some, as the exchange of power is exciting, and the helplessness of being bound

why I was being punished fell on deaf ears, the alarm bells were ringing. A dead inside numb feeling took over and I almost cried

Learn about what submission means in BDSM and how to safely participate in your new kinks and desires as you explore with a partner.

Personal story written by a Sub on his personal experiences when he was new, and abused but did not know better.

Learn the most basic ideas of BDSM and some of the common terms. Learn about respect and trust.