I’ve seen too many people think consent ends when the cuffs go on. It doesn’t. It evolves, breathes, and demands attention every step of the way. That’s what separates the experienced from the reckless.

Power exchange is exactly what it sounds like: a consensual power transfer between people. One person gives up a certain level of control, and the other assumes it. But that transfer isn’t something casual or impulsive—it’s intentional, mutual, and emotionally rich.

Many people experimenting with BDSM want to know how to be dominant. While some traits may come naturally, there is always a lot to be learned. The differences of domination, controlling, or abusing someone are distinct enough that some guidelines are necessary.  BDSM is more than just tying someone up or issuing commands. True dominance is about confidence, communication, and responsibility. Whether you're new to dominance or looking to refine your skills, this guide will h

The most interesting thing I have learned, and I want to share it with everyone, is that my kinks are changing and evolving. I think that a lot of times, playing really has to do with just finding the right partner to explore that kink with. I have had different people approach me, and some people you just know will be fun as soon as it starts. 

Masochism is one of the easiest things to misunderstand and one of the hardest to explain to your doctor when they ask about those bruises.

I have decided to search for a new devoted sub. Now that I have things organized and a little more perfected I think that I am ready.

Sadism is finding great pleasure in another person's suffering intentionally in pursuit of one's own pleasure.

things are going to change here, as I am changing. My relationships are changing, and what I can do and what I want to do

I am constantly in a state of submission and I always know my place with my Domme. There are no timeframes or business hours

Bondage is sexually arousing for some, as the exchange of power is exciting, and the helplessness of being bound

I smiled and went back to work, knowing my Domme had genuinely gotten into my head. A true mindfuck.

A point of view on gaining confidence through submission as told by a submissive.

Dominance in BDSM is about trust, control, and consent. It’s the foundation of a healthy power dynamic, of mutual respect & communication

Personal story written by a Sub on his personal experiences when he was new, and abused but did not know better.