I’ve seen too many people think consent ends when the cuffs go on. It doesn’t. It evolves, breathes, and demands attention every step of the way. That’s what separates the experienced from the reckless.

Masochism is one of the easiest things to misunderstand and one of the hardest to explain to your doctor when they ask about those bruises.

Sadism is finding great pleasure in another person's suffering intentionally in pursuit of one's own pleasure.

I am constantly in a state of submission and I always know my place with my Domme. There are no timeframes or business hours

I smiled and went back to work, knowing my Domme had genuinely gotten into my head. A true mindfuck.

Learn the most basic ideas of BDSM and some of the common terms. Learn about respect and trust.